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Dating photographer London: Ian Kobylanski

Dating App Profile Photos for Tinder, Bumble & Hinge

Dating profile photography by Ian Kobylanski.

In London, Ian directs and creates natural, engaging lifestyle portraits with ten years of experience. He helps singles make a great first impression on social media and dating apps like Hinge, Tinder, Bumble, Raya and more.

Originally from Vancouver, Canada, Ian brings a warm and friendly approach to his sessions, ensuring you feel comfortable and confident in front of the camera. He makes relaxed-feeling portraits feel effortless.

The individuals featured on this page are real people, not models – most have never been in front of the camera before, with some having flown to London from around the world and across the United Kingdom to work with Ian for better dating photos.


Check out Ian’s dating photography gallery for inspiration and his overview portfolio for all the candid-feeling work he creates.

Whether you’re working with a professional dating photographer like Ian or shooting with friends, check out his 70+ lifestyle photography poses, prompts, and ideas for dating app photos (with examples), which he uses with his clients, and his guide to the best dating photos for Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge.

A dating app started the conversation between my (now) wife and me.

She and I have been together for over eight years, we’ve moved to London from Vancouver together, and we got married in June 2025.

As a photographer and dating app success story, I understand how an impactful dating profile can be life-changing.

Dating photography is meaningful to me because it changes the way someone sees themselves.
— Ian Kobylanski, Principal Photographer, Koby Photography

What is Dating Profile Photography?

Dating profile photography is all about creating authentic and engaging lifestyle portraits that tell your story and reflect your personality.

These portraits are typically taken in both indoor and outdoor settings that resonate with your interests and lifestyle. The key is to avoid overly staged or edited photos and instead capture moments that feel genuine and relatable – like they didn’t come from a photoshoot. That’s what separates strong professional dating photos.

Ian's goal is to create images with storytelling that let potential matches understand who you are at a glance. Approachability is the underlying message of dating photos.


Looking for these kinds of lifestyle images, but for your social media, brand, or business? Ian’s personal branding photography may be the right fit.

How I approach dating photography: Ian’s perspective

Personal lifestyle photography for dating apps is a quiet art form. It’s done well when your intended audience has no idea it exists.

Cookie-cutter approaches to dating photography in London don’t work. My philosophy is to tell your story. The images we create are meant to spark conversation, reflect your personality, and feel true to how you spend your time.

I opt to direct with actions rather than poses, so your body language feels natural. Rely on me for where to look and where to put your hands – no posing experience or preparation necessary. I’ve directed and photographed over 1,000 camera-shy individuals.

In practice, I work like a friend with a camera, documenting moments that naturally make sense. The goal is never to make someone wonder, “Why was this photo taken?” Instead of staged scenes, we create thoughtful, believable moments that feel lived-in and real.

There should be a reason why a friend would’ve been there to take that photo.

As we shoot, you’ll see our photos in real time on a separate device. This creates a feedback loop to refine our approach, ensures there are no surprises, and relaxes our session when you see results that align with our shared vision.

When this is done properly, each image appears as if it were taken on a different day. Through planning and one-on-one collaboration, you’re relaxed, comfortable, and not making constant decisions on the day of the shoot. That’s what allows genuinely candid photos to happen, even though there’s more intention behind them than most people realise.

Why am I a dating photographer?

Much of my dating work is different from what you’ll see in my portfolio.

Compared to my fashion photography and advertising photography, dating photography is far more personal. I’m not removed from the outcome – I see the impact these images have.

Dating photography allows me to change the way someone sees themselves. I often work with people in periods of transition, and these images don’t just help them meet new partners – they capture a moment in their life they’ll always have.

I also come from a corporate background, having spent six years in software sales while building my photography career alongside it. That experience shaped how I work: clear communication, expectation-setting, and strong relationships matter. Most of my clients are working professionals in similar industries, so rapport comes naturally. I went to business school, and my social circle – including my now wife – works in the same world as many of my clients.

Finally, street photography is where my creative roots are. It’s how I spend my free time and the art form I’m most passionate about. Dating photography gives me a way to apply that candid, observational approach to helping people share who they are, naturally and honestly.

Lifestyle and portrait photography services in London

Environmental Portraits

Sessions in various indoor and outdoor locations that complement your personality and interests, creating natural and engaging images in environments that add context.

Lifestyle Photography

Capturing candid moments that show your authentic self in everyday settings that feel personal. Ian offers his East London loft studio to help facilitate these moments.

Bespoke Sessions

We discuss and plan the goals of your shoot, selecting locations and concepts that emphasise what makes you unique, tailored to your audience.

Combined Use Cases

Use the images for dating apps, professional headshots, and personal branding to refresh all your profiles.

What makes me different from other dating photographers?

Many clients who were weighing up different photographers have told me that what stood out about my approach is how detail-oriented, personal, and planning-driven it is.

Before the shoot, I’ll lead us in mapping out where we’ll go, the types of images we’ll create, the story each scene is meant to tell, how outfits and props fit into that plan, and much more. The aim is to remove uncertainty and decision-making from the shoot day itself – most of the work happens before it, and it’s all in the details.

That way, when the day arrives, we can simply follow the plan and enjoy the relaxed flow. It also allows us to create a varied, well-rounded set of dynamic images, mixing indoor and outdoor scenes and avoiding the “everything was taken on the same afternoon” look.

Most dating photographers take a more fashion-oriented or “just go shoot” approach: turning up and shooting repeated, posed portraits against nice backdrops they regularly frequent. That approach works well for a single image – your opener photo.

What’s much harder is building an effective dating profile from that approach alone. A profile needs more than one polished portrait. It needs images that illustrate personality, lifestyle, and context. That’s where believable scenes become far more effective. These are photos that look like they were taken naturally by a friend, where no one questions why the moment was photographed, and where your personality comes through without explanation.

The end result is images that feel effortless and authentic, even though there’s a lot of intention and choreography happening behind the scenes. Only you and I know how much planning went into it – there’s no substitute for that.

All dating photography sessions include

Collaborative goal-setting call
Outfit and wardrobe feedback
Posing and expression coaching
Detailed shoot planning document covering all variables
Location scouting custom to every client
Real-time view of the photos on a separate device while we shoot

Personalised selection gallery for you to pick your favourite images from after our shoot
Ian’s furnished loft studio is an available location
Combined services with personal clothing shopping, hair, skincare or makeup (optional)

Your new look, done for you

I partner with other creatives on editorial projects alongside commissions, like dating, who are just as passionate about their craft as I am about lifestyle photography. We offer combined services to take decision-making off your plate.

Need an updated wardrobe with looks that complement your body type, skin tone, and personality? I partner with an experienced London-based stylist who offers personal shopping and styling services. Bespoke looks are presented, sourced, and fitted – a lasting impact on your style and any new clothing purchases you’ll make in the future.

Need a new hairstyle or skincare on our shoot day? Groomers are hair and makeup artists for men. Think: haircut or beard trim before our session, plus makeup – without looking like you’re wearing makeup.

Most men ask for the same cut from their barber for years and don’t know why. Maybe it’s time for a fresh set of eyes and an update.

Whether on location or in her own studio, my groomer regularly works with celebrities and on-camera talent of all hair types and textures to create a polished yet natural look suited to your career and style. Plus, she’ll tell you what to communicate to your regular barber, address problem areas with your skin, and recommend products to help you maintain your new long-term hairstyle and facial grooming.

For women, I’ll introduce you to my recommended hair stylist and makeup artist, who can work together or separately depending on what you need. They can join us on location, at your home, or in my studio to create a natural look that feels like you and aligns with the direction of the scenes we plan.

The Step-By-Step Process

1. Consultation

We’ll hop on a call to discuss your goals, how you spend your time, and build familiarity.

2. Scene planning

I’ll suggest an array of scenes tailored to your interests, and you decide which you resonate with.

3. Location Scouting

I’ll share images of suggested locations for our scenes to help build a detailed shoot plan.

4. Wardrobe planning

The last step: deciding on outfits that complement the locations we agree on – or leave that up to my personal shopper.

5. Shoot day

We’ll have everything pre-organised for a stress-free experience. You’ll see all the images as we shoot.

6. Image selection

You’ll receive a gallery of images to select your favourites for editing, retouching, and delivery – ready to share with the world.

New to Being in Front of the Camera?

Most clients have never had a professional photoshoot before, and that’s expected. I will guide you through every step, such as where to look, how to stand, and where to place your hands, ensuring you feel at ease and confident.

To foster comfort and connection, I hop on a call with every client before the shoot to make sure you feel relaxed and ready. The goal is to make the experience enjoyable and to capture your authentic self.

With an approach like mine, we’ll be in regular communication leading up to our shoot day.

Who do I work with?

While I work with people of all backgrounds, over 95% of my dating photography clients in London tend to have a few things in common:

They’re personable, educated working professionals – often newly single after long-term relationships, recently relocated to (or visiting) London, or rethinking their approach to online dating. Most don’t have any recent, high-quality photos of themselves. They’re selective with their time and want to invest intentionally in their dating life to attract better matches.

If that sounds like you, you’re in good company.

 

No gimmicky dating coaching or pickup artist hacks, just photos for normal people.

I create authentic photos that match personalities – not fabricate them. They’re effortless-feeling images with varying degrees of polish that are defendable to your interests and catch you in your best light.

If I do my job right, you’re equipped with an attention-grabbing first impression. London is the most competitive city in the world for online dating. Thousands of new singles move through London – and the dating app algorithms – every day. I make you stand out without ever compromising who you are.

Ian’s dating photography package is second to none. He clearly understands how to capture your personality/interests as opposed to just making sure that you look good and I felt that he was completely invested in making sure that I was happy with the end result. There was no pressure for me to like the initial shots for each scene - I felt comfortable suggesting changes and we worked together until we were both happy. Communication was excellent throughout the process, including after the shoot where Ian was happy to make further suggested edits until I was completely happy. I cannot recommend Ian highly enough and would definitely come back again!
— David S., via TrustPilot
Shot with Ian recently and couldn’t recommend him more. He’s excellent at getting the best out of his subjects and collaborating closely to shape a shared vision, while also adapting on the fly to capture what’s working best in the moment.

One thing I particularly appreciated was how much he shared his results as we went along, which makes a huge difference — he really wanted to make sure we were aligned and nailing the brief. He put in a lot of work helping me plan upfront, was super responsive throughout, and turned everything around fast.

Due to my own poor scheduling, we ended up massively overrunning on our first shoot, but Ian kept everyone focused and engaged the entire time. Absolute grafter, great energy, and the results speak for themselves.
— Chris H., booked two dating photography shoots in London
I booked a quick chat with Ian in 2020 and have since had four photoshoots with him. I couldn’t have been more impressed with his professionalism and vision throughout. I didn’t know what to expect for my first shoot but after some pre-planning the results turned out great. He walked me through poses and suggested various locations based on examples of photos I sent him. I had plenty of photos to use across my social media and professional platforms. Would highly recommend him for all your photography needs.
— Josh C., booked four dating photography sessions in London
Was a bit hesitant to hire a lifestyle photographer but was left with zero regrets. Ian was absolutely amazing and from the very start the entire process was simple and easy to follow.

I travelled in from quite far to work with him and wasn’t too familiar with London, but that wasn’t a problem at all since Ian had everything handled and the only thing I needed to do was look good for a few photos. And even then, he guided me through that to make sure I could show off my best self.

The entire day was honestly pretty fun and I’d highly recommend anyone considering a similar service to just go ahead and book in with Ian. He’s amazing.
— Adnan P., via TrustPilot, travelled from Cumbria to London
Ian provides an all-round excellent service. I would especially recommend him to those who have little-to-no prior experience with professional photography shoots, as he is particularly good at walking you through each step of the process in a way which is both informative and reassuring. Ian very much knows his stuff; he scouts-out some great locations and is full of tips and tricks during the shoot to optimise the quality of the photos produced. He has a very easy-going and friendly personality - which again helps to reassure and relax you during the shoot - but this at no point compromises the level of focus and attention that he brings to the session...
— James G., travelled across the UK to shoot together
I had a really good experience working with Ian on a dating profile photoshoot in London.

From the start he was very organised and methodical, which made the whole process feel straightforward. He takes the time to talk through ideas beforehand and clearly knows what works well for dating profiles, which helps a lot if you’re not used to being in front of the camera.

On the day itself he was very good at helping me feel relaxed and natural, rather than making it feel overly staged or awkward. He has a good eye for locations and angles, and was flexible in adapting ideas as we moved around the city to get the best shots.

He was also helpful afterwards in narrowing down the photos and making sure I ended up with a strong final selection.

Overall a really positive experience and I’d definitely recommend him if you’re looking to upgrade your dating profile photos.
— Pranav M., via TrustPilot

The Half-Day Session

The Half-Day Session

Our goal is to create images for a full, new dating profile together.

Dating apps like Hinge allow for six image uploads, and in our half-day together, we’ll plan and photograph three to six distinctly different, elevated scenes – offering images that feel like they were accumulated over time.

 

How It Works

Frequently asked questions

Optional Add-Ons

The Deliverables

  • Individually tailored shoot plan covering all our decisions ahead of the session

  • Up to six scenes or looks (wardrobe changes) photographed on our shoot day

  • 12 image selections (ex. two per look) for download, with the option for additional selections available at any time includes editing and retouching

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